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Last Updated on August 22, 2024 by Paul Clayton
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5 Misconceptions About Self Defense Against Women
Gender equality is a pertinent issue, but it becomes more convoluted when considered from a self-defense perspective.
Key Takeaways
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- Self-Defense Justification: Defending oneself is necessary, regardless of gender, especially if there’s an imminent threat of harm.
- Legal Considerations: Using reasonable force in self-defense is generally lawful, but societal perceptions can influence legal outcomes.
- Gender Equality in Defense: Assault is wrong regardless of the perpetrator’s gender, and self-defense should be proportionate to the threat.
- Minimizing Harm: The goal in any confrontation should be to minimize harm and diffuse the situation.
- Avoiding Misconceptions: Teach that violence is not acceptable unless necessary for self-defense, and avoid gender-based biases in this context.
The boundaries of equality tend to blur when it comes to self-defense. Sometimes, you get thought-provoking questions like whether hitting a woman in self-defense is acceptable. Do you wonder whether we’re being hypocritical if we treat women as equals yet recoil at the idea of physical retaliation in dire situations?
Thanks for joining us as we explore this delicate subject in the realm of self-defense.
Is It Ever Justifiable To Hit A Woman For Self Defence
The answer is a resounding YES. However, this is where the issue of sexism affects men. It is not about a “man should never hit a woman.”
Instead, it’s about recognizing that no one should hit anyone. But when someone
does hit you, defending yourself becomes necessary. Consequently, the notion that men should endure punches to the face to prove their manliness is generally considered downright absurd.
Both men and women despise being hurt, injured, or attacked. Remember, we all have sensitive pain receptors in our faces. If anyone- be it a man, woman, or doctor- launches an attack on you, it is crucial to defend yourself.
Seek an opportunity to escape. Use force to create distance. Or, as a last resort, physically engage in self-defense.
Naturally, this doesn’t mean hitting a woman amid an argument or anything is acceptable. It is essential not to sensationalize this concept or actively seek situations where hitting women might be okay.
However, if someone, regardless of gender, attacks you with the intent to harm or kill, you have every right to protect yourself, even if it means causing injury or worse.
So, the belief that a man should never hit a woman is perfectly valid- as long as the woman does not assault the man with the intent to harm or kill. In such cases, moral concerns shift.
Is it Illegal for a Man to Hit a Woman in Self-Defence?
In most cases, you can use reasonable force to prevent someone from harming you. However, some individuals are determined to win regardless of how wrong their actions may be. So, you must decide if you can stop them from hurting you.
If a woman grabs a weapon, she ceases to be just a woman and becomes a person with a dangerous tool. They can harm or even kill you, just like if a man does it.
In most cases, the woman involved may not necessarily be more muscular or combat-trained. However, if a woman is physically strong or trained in combat and is attacking you in a way that leaves no room for escape, retreat may not be an option—thus, the need for self-defense. Some women possess impressive skills, like being black belts in martial arts.
In any confrontation, the goal is to minimize harm and diffuse the situation. Do whatever is necessary to protect yourself from injury or death.
A man can choose to walk away. It’s unfortunate. But if someone becomes violent, they may face violence in return. Therefore, yes. Sometimes, it may not only be acceptable but necessary for a man to hit a woman to prevent harm to himself.
Is It Wrong For Men To Hit A Woman If She Attacks Him First?
Assault is wrong. No matter who does it. As mentioned earlier, you have the right to protect yourself. It’s completely justified. However, people should never assault each other unless it’s necessary to defend themselves or someone else in danger.
While it’s okay to defend yourself physically, only to the extent needed to stop the attack. For example, if your girlfriend slaps you but stops, it doesn’t give you the right to punch her in the face suddenly. You didn’t need to do that since she had already stopped attacking you.
However, if she continues to assault you, it may be necessary to use physical force to make her stop. When defending yourself, gender doesn’t matter. Use reasonable force- whatever is appropriate and necessary based on the situation.
This applies to people of all genders. A man hitting a woman doesn’t mean the woman can beat him up in return. If your partner hits you out of anger but doesn’t continue to attack you, leave. End the confrontation right there. You do not need to resort to physical violence for that.
But Is It All Right For A Woman To Hit A Man?
Generally, most people believe that it is wrong for a man to hit a woman in any situation.
But what about the other way around? Is it okay for a woman to hit a man? Teaching 
men that it’s not okay to hit women can be difficult. Conversely, teaching women that it’s okay to hit men can be easier. So it is essential always to try and avoid it altogether.
Instead of teaching boys that hitting girls is not okay, we should teach children that hitting anyone is not okay unless necessary. Violence should only be used as a last resort.
So, yes. It’s right for a woman to hit a man under the same circumstances that make it acceptable for a man to hit a woman. Or when a man hits another man or a woman hits another woman. Otherwise, violence is never okay.
Here Are Some Additional Tips for Self-Defense
Socially and legally, you are generally considered at fault unless clear justifying circumstances exist. So, even under ideal circumstances, any appearance of violence against women could land you in jail.
If a woman is attempting to harm or kill you seriously, or if she is insistently attacking you, you should defend yourself. However, it might be better to endure a few punches or slaps than to respond in kind.
This has nothing to do with “taking it like a grown-up.” most people will hardly sympathize with a 220-pound man hitting or hurling a 130-pound woman unless she poses a serious threat, like grabbing a knife or persistently trying to cause harm.
Avoid the situation altogether- although that may sometimes be impossible.
Turn your back to her. Cover the back of your head and neck. Either she’ll tire herself out, or someone will intervene soon enough.
A few bruises are better than spending six months in jail for hitting a woman. These suggestions don’t apply to situations involving ongoing abusive relationships.
Conclusion
Women are not exempt from the law when it comes to assault. If a woman attacks a man, the man has the right to defend himself using appropriate force. The key thing here is being reasonable.
If the woman punches you and you punch her back, causing her to lose consciousness- and you didn’t need to hit her to protect yourself forcefully- you can face arrest for going too far. Just as she could be arrested for initiating the assault in the first place.
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